i can't pm you joel but when you embed a video form youtube, you only put the info after the = in the youtube brackets
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a0_d3qx4zRE&feature=player_detailpage
Copy and paste the green in between the youtube brackets
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a0_d3qx4zRE&feature=player_detailpage
Copy and paste the green in between the youtube brackets