Before it gets "ugly"? It's just a discusion.... Or maybe you're like me and get a little short when people put their own labels on your rays without knowing squat about them.... Kinda like my "Castexi" that come from the Sao Felix for yellow rays, yet are just "Castexi" that get big and ugly..... lol. I never meant to imply that your rays are/aren't BDs, also don't know what breeds there, I'm simply a little "bothered" by the constant miss use /interpretation of "BD" and all the "BD" Mutts. Just seems everything is BD anymore.
Most people selling pups have no problem sharing the lineage.... Why not? Shouldn't we be proud of the genes they have? I just think it's suspicious when people won't share.... Didn't think it would be asking too much as I'm very quick to share pics of the family of rays mine are coming from. That's why I said it should be job of the breeder to prove/share what the ray is. I'm all about getting rays from hobbyists and most hobbyists care enough to keep track, as opposed to a pond full of rays could be this or that imports.
Listen I think we are more both on the same page than we think. The difference is you may likely have a very different experience from me, due to your dedication to the hobby vs. mine, as well as being in the U.S.A. It's actually quite different in Canada, one of the problems is I think I speak for a lot of ray people when I say I wish we could get what you get. That being said we CAN get the same as you, it just costs us double, putting it out of reach for a lot of people. (Side note, try getting the good parts and equipment for anything here, if you do you gotta pay, and all those Free shipping offers tend to be U.S only).
Here's my thing though, if I walked into a shop or another hobbyist home for the purposes of a purchase, if someone calls their ray a black diamond I think it's a waste of breath to try to give the spiel to anyone anymore, I just a) judge the fish in front of me and b) take a picture and get an ID, and c) if for info on parents if I care to, if the ray looks nice to me I could care less to press for much details other than what they say the species are. So, bearing in mind I am nothing if not transparent if you look at any single one of my ads, I personally don't think ID'ing a P13 leopoldi that has unbelievable spotting as a black diamond is a terrible thing. Black diamonds are worth more for a reason, and I personally wouldn't pay any fair sum of money for one of these "uglier" (my term) Sao Felix I hear of even if they were called 24K Gold Black Diamond. Hell look at all the hybrids selling for 5, possibly 6 figures in asia, more white than black. I would never ever call those black diamond, I would rather take issue with that than having a BDxLEO with remarkable patterns be called a BD, especially since it seems there is some disagreement about what the term means. The single only reason I label BDxLeo (and most times explain parents in the ad) is because I would never take the risk of a customer cussing me out for the ray not being pure or telling him it was a BD, I prefer to err on the side of caution so that people know exactly. If they want to call the ones of the litter that follow dads genes and not moms BD's, and their friends agree, sweet bro. Maybe one day if/when I am breeding more regularly I may start calling the ones with the BD traits BD's and the other ones leo's, who knows, it depends on how the term is used at that time, I'm not ruling it out, for now this works.