Thanks! The female was rockin my male hard. Wouldn't leave home alone (90g). I put Oscar in to try to curb her aggression... Didn't work. She stayed on the male. Added a butti. Things looked good for maybe 10min. I came back to the female and the butti beating on him. He was just just staying still on bottom of tank and letting her rock him. Pulled female and butti out. Added female back in around midnight no lights on. Woke up early (sunrise) to make sure there were no deaths I couldn't prevent. That sparred for a bit and made up. Should have eggs soon!