Ok Dave, TDS meter arrived today! Very neat little unit, works like a charm. I tested the GH and TDS as follows:
Tapwater
TDS: 109ppm
GH: 80ppm, 4.48 dH
RO waste water
TDS: 132ppm
GH: 100ppm, 5.6 dH
RO/DI pure water
TDS: 1ppm (taken from water in barrel)
GH: < 20ppm, 1.12 dH (1 drop to change color)
190g tank
TDS: 313ppm
GH: 100ppm, 5.6 dH
30g quarantine tank w/ Alenquers
TDS: 87ppm
GH: 40ppm, 2.24 dH
In summary, I was surprised that RO waste water was actually higher in TDS and GH than tap water. I guess you were right, in that a higher concentration of solids is in the waste water. Also of note, is that my 30g QT tank has the most ideal water. I've done 3-4 10g water changes on this tank using pure RO/DI water. This would be the ideal readings I'd like to have on the 190g. It will be a couple weeks before I can get this low on the 190g.
BUT, the 190g has come down in GH a lot!! Before I started using RO/DI water, my GH was at 220ppm / 12.3 dH. Huge difference!!! I wish I could have gotten an initial TDS reading before I started adding pure water.
Hope that helps!