From what I have found, it is mainly age and conditioning that matter.
You say your ray is 12", but not what species. Unless it is a retic, scobina, or humerosa, you've got a while to wait. The more common ones like motoro and leopoldi are going to take some time to mature.
But, if you've got a big tank and a light bioload, mix up some food, add a mate, and go for it!
I am working with P. humerosa at the moment, and plan to spend at least the next 2 years "waiting".
Best of luck! Keep us informed of any progress you make!
/Kris