I could use some help sexing my 6 firemouths, they have laid eggs twice but only 1 parent seems to protect it and it doesn't seem to get fertalized. The parent guarding is brightly colored, dark red underbelly and darker body color overall. I assume that's the male, but when it's tubes drop it looks female. The biggest fish has lip locked with it and "danced" around, does go by eggs but isn't chased off but also doesn' help in guarding. Here are some of the pics I took, quality isn't great.