I am feeling good about the chocolate as I dont think I have read anything negative about his addition, other than the tank possibly being fully stocked as it is now... He will get to be about as big if not a tiny bit bigger than the GT but much more peaceful. If I stick with no Syn and no Altifrons, the GT and the chocolate would be the only 12 inch cichlids with nothing larger than them in the tank, just sayin.
The Nicaraguan I am unsure of but am interested in, and would love a little more information on them if anyone has experience with them. I have been reading about them and see they can be territorial but tend to be on the more peaceful side of territorial cichlids. Most sites recommend not putting them with devils or texas', but says putting them with other semi aggresive SA/CA cichlids could work fine. I would mostly be concerned about the EBJD and the Senegal bichir with this kind of fish in the tank.
I also gotta note, although the firemouth is very pretty, he is not exactly a staple of the tank. I say this because someone mentioned the poor compatibility of a firemouth and this tank. Every cichlid and important fish in the tank was at least $20. The firemouth we got for 96 cents at my gfs work. He could easily be removed without much heartbreak but would like to see him try to thrive in this setting. He will max at about 5-6 inches but is one of the most aggressive-oriented fish in the tank. Convicts are held with very large and aggressive cichlids. I have read firemouths and convicts do well together and that FMs and GTs do well together. As long as he isnt messing with the EBJD or Bichir too much he can stay.
As for my original list : 1 Red Ceibal cichlid, 1 Chocolate cichlid, 1 Orange Shoulder Severum/ or 1 Green Severum, 1 Nicaraguan cichlid, 1 Synspilum cichlid, 1 Geophagus Altifrons. No to the red ceibal as i mentioned along with the Synspilum. The geo I guess is a question of can you have a lone Geo in a tank or not. If not than I wont do any Geo's and possibly look into something else. Or are Altifrons just special like that, that they need a group. Do red-heads, or surinamensis' (pearl) also need groups? I am only thinking of adding 1 maybe 2 at the most (geos). If this is a bad plan I will scratch it. I want to learn more about the Nicaraguan like I mentioned. Like the Acara/GT mix, it might or might not work, or is there almost a certainty of it being drastically different? As for severums. I have to ask a new question.
My red spotted is/has been very timid in the tank. Since the moment he hit it, he has been timid. Not necessarily of other fish, but of the environment or something. He took the firemouths spot in the 55gallon right away, a spot he had kinda claimed, so he isnt scared. But he was very shy, I never saw him much. Now in the 125, no more spot like what they had in the 55. No more complete hiding or claiming. So he stays in the corners with the bichir around the base of some bamboo plants. He hardly ever comes out. What could be the reason for this? Tank is heated, sits at 80 F. No moon lighting or anything at night. He is eating, but from his corner. Is this a severum thing, is the tank too fast swimming for him, too territorial? Would adding more severums help? Any ideas?
As soon as I get on tomorrow I will figure out how to get an image posted on here and get a picture of the community as it is. I will also reply more to some of these great responses, thanks so much for the input everyone.