Whoa!!

I feel stupid. I can't figure out the gender of my ray. I thought it was female. "She" has her disc, then 2 little triangular fins she uses (at the base of her tail) to push her self around along with her disk. Are these claspers? I though males had those little fins and then separate things as claspers.

Thanks.

she doesn't have those, her pelvic fins are just rounded off. Female?

Thanks.