New BP owner - I am chicken of the Sea!

CraniumRex

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Long time aquarist keeping smaller fish (biggest was Bolivian ram)

Set up a 75 gallon that housed large school of tiger barbs (x28). Planted tank getting established, up since January. Cycled.

Just adopted two unwanted blood parrots this past weekend, approx 4 years old. I think a male and female but not 100% sure. They seem to be in good condition. I added two large flower pots for caves. I tried to get in as much info about them in the few weeks before picking them up but was simply not prepared for the Jekyll and Hyde behaviour of the bigger one.

They totally ignore the barbs so far. They are sometimes shy and understandably skittish if I approach too quickly but do come to the front of the tank without fear most of the time, especially at feeding time. The female will take food from my hand, the male not quite yet. They certainly don’t HAVE to eat from my hand but I like building the trust (if that’s actually what I’m accomplishing!)

Anyway, the male seems tentative, but if I put my hand in the tank for any reason other than food, he will charge me. Scares the crap out of me (allergic to pain). How hard can they bite? I’ve read people saying they draw blood, others say they can’t close their mouths so can’t bite hard. Which is it?

Lastly, is it helpful to bluff him back with my hand to make him back off, better to stand my ground and stay still, or keep doing what I have, which uttering a choice expletive and have my hands running for the hills?



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Deadeye

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Welcome to the forum!
I wouldn’t be too worried about getting bit. In most cases, they simply lack the machinery to do damage. Mine had tried biting me once and all he accomplished was ramming my hand. That said, they are one of those fish that vary a lot by the individual. Some have functional mouths, most don’t.
If you’re really worried, a thick glove will work. I use one for my red wolf fish (a bite from him would probably need stitches, but even he’s learned to ignore me once he found out he can’t eat me).
I’ll wave my hand at fish to scare them away. It works for some, others like my clownfish laugh and continue to draw blood. Most fish are scared enough of the big hand in the water and steer clear.
 

CraniumRex

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Thanks Deadeye. I just looked up red wolf fish and I can see a bite would be a trip to Emergency! Yikes. That is quite a fish! You are far braver than I am (almost embarrassed to join Monster Fishkeepers when it seems mine can only lip me off LOL)

I will try the glove so I can stop being such a baby about it and gain some confidence.

Thank you again for your warm welcome and helpful reply!
 
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Americancichlidsaredabest

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Welcome to the forum!! Nice looking parrots. Like Deadeye Deadeye said it kind of varies on the individual parrot if they can bite or not. I believe I’ve seen a few with teeth but I don’t think a lot do. I know for sure mine wouldn’t try and bite me he’s kinda timid.
 

CraniumRex

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Mar 20, 2024
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Thanks Americancichlidsaredabest Americancichlidsaredabest ! They really do have their own personalities, so different from the other schooling fish I’ve had. My Bolivian rams had distinct personalities but were so shy compared to these two. They make me laugh watching them, so derpy and engaging.

I’m glad you think they look good - I wasn’t 100% sure why the guy I got them from was rehoming them - all he said was he was taking his tank down and would I take them. He sent me pics but it’s like Internet dating, right? Not sure until you see them in person LOL.

Thanks for the quick and helpful reply and warm welcome!
 
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