so ive placed what i believe to be male and female in a tank together and its been a few weeks and noticed the male has stopped all aggressive chasing and now just follows the female around and shakes his entire body if she pays any attention at all to him.outside of this interaction its just him following her around and he will spread his fins out wide when she goes by,i did have two other saums in with them but had to remove due to increased aggression from this large male towards them so im guessing hes chosen her and now just waiting for her to respond and be ready to breed i guess.hes been cleaning out the flowerpot i put in the tank.have they officially paired? or will it be when she turns dark?