I have a titanium flowerhorn, I think he's a short body. I have him in a 40 gallon breeder tank, and he isn't that big. I got him last November. He used to scrape his head a lot his head, but he stopped doing that. Now I'm kind of worried, because he hasn't eaten in several days, and he comes up acting like he wants to be fed, but when I feed him, he acts like he is scared of the food. What should I do?