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livebearerfreak

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whats the best way to tell my mom she needs to go and dosnt need to worry about me anymore??? shes suffering badly and already is half dead. and im gonna tell her she needs to go to heaven cause God wants ehr there. so whats teh best way???
 
i dont want u all upset but the family is tryin to help her to go to a better place so she dont suffer anymore then she already is...
 
honestly dude i dont know what to say to this question, i feel your pain, but i would let your mom live as long as she can if that is her desire, and not try to change her mind on that, sure its sad to see her suffer and live miserably but think about it would you want to have your child see you die or would you want to stay with him as long as possible no matter what happens to you?

now im not trying to make your family do as i say or anything in that nature but i am saying that they need to respect your mothers wishes and make her life no matter how short the best possible till that horrible day comes.
 
she wont eat and cant eat.. seh cant go to the bathroom has to have this speciel instrment in her to make her.. she breathing hard.. talks to teh Lord alot... and has paper soft skin... and alot more stuff wrong wit her.. i just dont want ehr to suffer thats why i asked how i should tell ehr..
 
I think telling her that if she's not seconds away from death is pre-mature and could back fire. Honestly I think you can re affirm that you'll be ok with out her but I wouldn't tell her to go like you don't want her.
 
well she stoped breathing and all but started back up so the nurse said to quit her meds but stay with liquid oxycoden for her pain and has a week left WAH
 
i was in the same exact position with my mother...... I finally decided the most mature, nonselfish thing to do is to tell her that i will be ok and to "let go"..... she was also in a coma state.... wasn't sure if she heard me or not.... but she passed that following morning.... many times people "fight" or "hold on" due to obligations they feel they have still on earth....

its up to you cb..... she will be ready when you are ready....
 
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