I've been in love with these fish for years, never bought one because of all the descriptions of them being a hyper aggressive cichlid. But I feel like I'm gonna burst if I don't break down and get one so I'm turning to the members of MFK for help. How true is it about there aggression? I know towards conspecifics it's probably high. Can I get away with mixing them in with Indo Dat's a Silver Aro and a vulture cat. Please tell me about your personal experiences with these guys in a community. Thanx in advance.