I was just thinking to myself... When do you know for sure that you actually have a pair? I currently have 4 festae (1 male, 3 female). 2 of the females are hated by the other female and male in the tank so I am getting rid of them. I have a divider, and all the females stay on one side, except the dominant female ventures over to the males side quite frequently. when this happens, he shakes and tail flaps to try and impress her. She will then swim around him for a while and color up like crazy! but then she will go back on the other side for a while and chase the other females. When the other females go on the males side, they nearly get killed every time. So my question is, are my dominant female and male actually a pair? or should the female be on his side all the time if they were really a pair? Let me know. Thanks!