
Somebody correct me if im wrong, but you should be able to find a dual float switch kit that will solve your dilemma. Should be a way that bottom float switch cuts the pump off and only the top float switch will cut the pump back on. You would just have to experiment cutting the pump off at lower level and seeing how much the water rises from water returning from the lines, then you'll know your upper float height.
Why don't you look at a holding tank and use the ato to top off the sump? It would be alot easier