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downset21

Fire Eel
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maybe this should go in the lounge, but I feel it opens up a topic that is valid... so i had a disagreement with a cab driver last night. bare in mind i teach juvenile delinquents how to walk away from situations. so my dumb ass, decides to show the cab driver how much i disagreed with him trying to overcharge me by $20. (some boston cab drivers wont turn their meters on at night, and just charge $50 right off the bat) it's a $30 cab ride back to my city, so i told him that and he tries speeding off on me. so i catch up, and i've had a few, and I ask him why he's trying to F me on the rate. he said "not my problem", so i show my displeasure by breaking his nose... very bad and regrettable decision. my girl is still not happy with me. she says to me "you cant take care of a fish tank in prison." haha, i calmed down immediately. but this morning i thought, maybe inmates would benefit from a fish tank...

we all keep tanks for different reasons. I keep tanks because they look aesthetically pleasing, they are a great conversation piece, and most of all, i like being responsible for the well-being of something. (ironic) Another common reason why we keep them is that they are therapeutic. ever just stare at them after a stressful day at work. i set up 2 tanks at work. ALL of my kids are fixated on how a xingu I looks for food and investigates territories. it helps them take their mind off their stressful lives. anybody that works with kids, or even prisoners (so long as they cant touch the glass and make shanks out of them) should consider setting up tanks as a form of therapy.

my question is, has anybody else used a fish tank as a soothing mechanism when working with people?
 
by the way, i hope you dont get the impression that i tried to glorify what I did last night, it was foolish and dangerous. please dont get the wrong impression but i included it to show where I was getting my point of view. (and how the threat of not being able to care for my tanks can keep me out of trouble)
 
I'm only 14 but when my brother ticks me off I mainly just walk in my fishroom and almost instantly calm down.... now when my brother walks into the fish room with me it is a different situation... :D
 
predatorpassion said:
I'm only 14 but when my brother ticks me off I mainly just walk in my fishroom and almost instantly calm down.... now when my brother walks into the fish room with me it is a different situation... :D

i could've learned a lesson from your maturity..im 23 and not showing your restraint, good for you, haha. by the way, at 14, all i had was a 30 gal. with 2 oscars. i was brand new to the hobby, and misinformed. you have quite a fish room there. keep us posted on what you put in the big ones.
 
i enjoy watching the fish becouse it relaxes me and it is interesting to watch.i love it when a guest asks me something about my fish. i can go on and on.. i have like 900 channels on the t.v and i often find myself staring at the fish tank in my living room instead of whatever program is on the. my wife and i will be watching tv late at night and every five minutes or so i say" did you see what the little jag just did?" or whatever else is going on in there. i love it couldnt imagine a home without an aquarium. i reccomend them to friends all the time..... they just dont know :)
 
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