Ok so im going from feeling like im on top of the world with keeping fish to being really annoyed today. All has been great with my rays, i got a female p13 two and a half years ago then my female flower about 16months ago then a female pearl (sectioned off to grow) in march.all from wharf.i wanted to expand my collection and had a list of ones i was interested in,im mainly into large growing rays aswell as the stunning patterned types.a large male otorongo came up and although i preferred females to males because of sizes attained it werent very otfen i was going to have chance to get one so jumped at the chance and collected him.....in hindsight i should have done more research on seeing if he would fit in ok bearing in mind he has a disc size of about 24 inches compared to my 2 females at 18ish inches and 16ish inches.once in a couple of days later the large male ray was swimming round with the p13's barb sticking out of his head! Which i caught and removed i monitored closely to the situation and the male was trying to breed (im guessing) with both female rays to which there was no damage or constant harassing just occasionally mouth mark on front discs.today i fed my flower ray in morning and all was ok but did notice few marks and nicks out of both female rays.....i checked this evening to find the p13 badly chewed on and the flower also covered in same marks but not as bad both still feeding.ive now caught the male and seperated him in a floating container until i can sort a proper devide out but how far will the aggression go? Does it subside? Is it breeding aggression or another type of aggression? Will they always have to be seperated?