I've successfully bred oscars before. My fish were about 3 years of age, 8-9 inches in size. I've had many "false pairs" in the past. Jawing, digging breeding pits, and chasing other fish away is not enough to confirm you have a pair. Look for the protruding rectangular egg tube for the female and the more narrow triangular tipped sperm tube of the male. I have had infertile males before, also had two females pair up. It is a lot of fun to raise a batch of baby oscars, so I recommend you see the project through if you can. I've been told that 6 fish give you a good mathematical chance of getting a breeding pair. Good luck.