Hi, I made an account just to reply here...
Okay I'm not sure how much you've witnessed in your Umbees mating.
BUT, I have 2 doviis, and my female won't let the male withing 6 inches of the eggs. Sooo, the female picks the eggs off 1 by 1, as the eggs rot or die from being unfertilized.
My male dovii is either too immature to fertilize, or my female just won't let him.
Anyway, eventually she picks off all the eggs, 1 by 1. Throughout a 3 or 4 day span.