Elder council of the Lounge. I have a tale I want to tell so sit back and prepare for a thread about a particular situation about girls coming from someone who is not in middle school.
So this is before I got married. Me and my cousins used to take road trips up to Sacramento to hang out with other friends and relatives. We'd hang out with girls and party and what not. So on this particular trip, one of my cousins, Jay, had connections with these new girls we had never hung out with before. He had been talking online with this one girl (Lynn) in Sac for a month or so and been flirting with her and what not. They planned to hang out with us when we got up there at some point. They were not bf gf or anything like that. She was just someone he was flirting with and he did not see her as a potential gf because there are party girls and then there are actual girls you may get into a relationship with. This particular girl was a party girl.
So we're up in Sacramento and have already hung out with some other girls and on the second or third night my cousin gets Lynn and her friends to come out to hang out with us. A couple of them had to work the next day so we are just gonna stay at our motel room and have a few drinks. It wasn't gonna be an all nighter.
So we meet these girls and are just hanging out, having a good time right. Everyone's drinking a little bit, my cousin Jay is talking to everyone back and forth and there was no real connection between him and Lynn. They're cool and all but kind of just acting like good friends. Well, at one point that night, Lynn sits next to me on the bed and we started chatting a bit. We have a pretty good conversation going and I don't think anything because I've been flirting with her friends the whole time too. Just innocent flirting, nothing too serious. Well, I don't remember how I came about it, but at one point I asked her to do me a favor.
She say's ok, then I tell her, I like to do this with every new person I meet whenever I can. It kind of sparks an interest in her curiosity as I noticed. I asked her, "I want you to tell me a secret. I know we are strangers but I like to ask strangers to tell me one dark or very personal secret to me." And since we don't know eachother she don't have to worry about me knowing and telling others or she don't have to be worried about being judged. She leans over to me and whispers in my ear, "I think you're cute."
This took me by surprise because I wasn't expecting that at all. I whisper in her ear, "I think you're beautiful." Which she was, she was hella cute. But up to that point I didn't think anything of her because to me she was "a hook up of my cousin's." She was his people we were gonna hang with. It was just a reaction in the moment that I told her she was beautiful.
I'm not the type of guy that would check out a friend's girl or try anything like that. Me and my boys look out for eachother. I'm confident they have my back and I know they feel the same way. But this was a party girl only. I think if I'm Jay, this is what I'm thinking. Party girls are for just that. Partying with. If I have connections with girls, and I had my eye on a girl but she had an eye on one of my boys, my mind set is, "yo, go handle your business." And I expect that everyone felt the same way.
Well, anyways, back to the moment with Lynn. We looked into eachothers eyes and it was a mutual feeling and we both leaned in and kissed. It was a passionate kiss, as soon as I felt her lips against mine my heart raced and I can tell she felt the same. Our kiss lasted a few seconds. The room was crowded so some people saw it and some didn't. My cousin Jay saw it. But everyone just went about their business. So then for a few minutes she starts to lean on me and I put my arm around her and we continue talking with ourselves and with everyone else. The whole time though, I'm feeling kind of guilty. Jay's demeanor kind of changes and he gets on his cell and starts talking to someone. after a moment he goes outside and doesn't come back.
I think to myself, damn,......... so then I go outside and he's on the phone sitting on the curb across the parking lot. I walk over and asks him if everything's cool. He tells me yeah man, don't even worry about it, go do your thing. I tell him, dude, she came onto me, I didn't mean or plan to do anything like that. He says, bro, you know me, don't even worry about it. For a brief split second I breath a sigh of relief until he finished his sentence. He says, I wouldn't have done that but it's all good dude.
And that right there is what killed me. To be continued,.......... gotta go but I'll finish this story later
So this is before I got married. Me and my cousins used to take road trips up to Sacramento to hang out with other friends and relatives. We'd hang out with girls and party and what not. So on this particular trip, one of my cousins, Jay, had connections with these new girls we had never hung out with before. He had been talking online with this one girl (Lynn) in Sac for a month or so and been flirting with her and what not. They planned to hang out with us when we got up there at some point. They were not bf gf or anything like that. She was just someone he was flirting with and he did not see her as a potential gf because there are party girls and then there are actual girls you may get into a relationship with. This particular girl was a party girl.
So we're up in Sacramento and have already hung out with some other girls and on the second or third night my cousin gets Lynn and her friends to come out to hang out with us. A couple of them had to work the next day so we are just gonna stay at our motel room and have a few drinks. It wasn't gonna be an all nighter.
So we meet these girls and are just hanging out, having a good time right. Everyone's drinking a little bit, my cousin Jay is talking to everyone back and forth and there was no real connection between him and Lynn. They're cool and all but kind of just acting like good friends. Well, at one point that night, Lynn sits next to me on the bed and we started chatting a bit. We have a pretty good conversation going and I don't think anything because I've been flirting with her friends the whole time too. Just innocent flirting, nothing too serious. Well, I don't remember how I came about it, but at one point I asked her to do me a favor.
She say's ok, then I tell her, I like to do this with every new person I meet whenever I can. It kind of sparks an interest in her curiosity as I noticed. I asked her, "I want you to tell me a secret. I know we are strangers but I like to ask strangers to tell me one dark or very personal secret to me." And since we don't know eachother she don't have to worry about me knowing and telling others or she don't have to be worried about being judged. She leans over to me and whispers in my ear, "I think you're cute."
This took me by surprise because I wasn't expecting that at all. I whisper in her ear, "I think you're beautiful." Which she was, she was hella cute. But up to that point I didn't think anything of her because to me she was "a hook up of my cousin's." She was his people we were gonna hang with. It was just a reaction in the moment that I told her she was beautiful.
I'm not the type of guy that would check out a friend's girl or try anything like that. Me and my boys look out for eachother. I'm confident they have my back and I know they feel the same way. But this was a party girl only. I think if I'm Jay, this is what I'm thinking. Party girls are for just that. Partying with. If I have connections with girls, and I had my eye on a girl but she had an eye on one of my boys, my mind set is, "yo, go handle your business." And I expect that everyone felt the same way.
Well, anyways, back to the moment with Lynn. We looked into eachothers eyes and it was a mutual feeling and we both leaned in and kissed. It was a passionate kiss, as soon as I felt her lips against mine my heart raced and I can tell she felt the same. Our kiss lasted a few seconds. The room was crowded so some people saw it and some didn't. My cousin Jay saw it. But everyone just went about their business. So then for a few minutes she starts to lean on me and I put my arm around her and we continue talking with ourselves and with everyone else. The whole time though, I'm feeling kind of guilty. Jay's demeanor kind of changes and he gets on his cell and starts talking to someone. after a moment he goes outside and doesn't come back.
I think to myself, damn,......... so then I go outside and he's on the phone sitting on the curb across the parking lot. I walk over and asks him if everything's cool. He tells me yeah man, don't even worry about it, go do your thing. I tell him, dude, she came onto me, I didn't mean or plan to do anything like that. He says, bro, you know me, don't even worry about it. For a brief split second I breath a sigh of relief until he finished his sentence. He says, I wouldn't have done that but it's all good dude.
And that right there is what killed me. To be continued,.......... gotta go but I'll finish this story later
