I know what you mean man. I love Parachromis and how they bond. But I also love the look and personality of the Lyonsi. They're like a mini less agressive Trimac. Then you've got the big crazy Odo. Maybe I should just get 4 tanks and keep them all.....But then the wife would surely divorce me.
And, I'm already doing the following tanks:
240 gal Dovii
55 gal GT
So I've already got a big bad Parachromis.....Maybe I should go with the Amphilophus or Nandopsis genus just to spice things up.