The male is a bifa. and the other male is fenest. Both of them is about 9 to 10" TL. Without the males, the females would not survive in my tank. I hope this is a better explanation. LOLLOL!!!!! But why don't you get rid of the male instead...kinda sexist to blame the female for all the problems...lol...male has part in it too...besides..the females look better...as qouted from you!