I'm sure cichlids just have a fairly-predetermined amount of desired personal space. The bigger the fish, the more desired personal space. If you stuck a 20" male dovii in a 20' diameter pond I speculate it would claim an area of 10 feetx10 feet or less, if there were other capable rivals in the pond. Of course, noone keeps fish in tanks of that size, so it appears that large fish such as dovii, festae, umbees, etc are uniformly aggressive regardless of tanksize.
Convicts and african mbuna only seem to ask for a foot or less of personal space. midas reportedly seem placated in having a roughly 125g-180g area to themselves.
One exception to this perhaps comes when one fish totally dominates all others in a given tank, and consequently can call the whole tank it's own and cruise about and bully others as it pleases. Its srot of wrong to call that an exception however, since almost all setups it seems result in one fish being dominant over all the others.
Another exception comes in regards to conspecifics; I had two 4" JD males in a 200g, and one still managed to maul the other to death. I had a 9" male texas in the 200g, and he nonetheless went out of his way to ceaselessly harass a 7" male salvini. The male texas was removed, and then the male salvini went out of his way to relentlessly harass a 7" female urophthalmus. I removed the urophthalmus, and the now-8" salvini only gives the the 6-7" JD pair an occasional bit of harassment. The salvini goes wherever he damn well pleases, though he does have a personal preferred cave.
In any case I definitely wouldn't say "some cichlid species have limits to their aggression, and others don't".