For the past few months one of my rays have turned pale in color and extremely shy. She isn't skittish but every time I come up to the glass to feed she hides in sand. I never see her eat but she still seems to be fat. Her base color has probably lighted up by 3 tones of brown to pool filter sand tan. I treated for parasites many times and also still no avail. Highly unlikely she is pregnant but she has a large hump and her tail is thick so she must be eating. Water temp is 78 and water quality is fine... little high in nitrates but I do water changes 3x a week... 10-15 ppm. Any ideas?