I just cant seem to grasp the concept. okay you have a aquarium with salt water. now you add base rock. now you cycle? do you cycle at the same that your live rock is introduced and curing?. does live rock curing cause the tank to cycle?, is cycling and curing basically the same thing? if you add more live rock later on down the road you could have another cycle while it is curing?...and apparently amonia spikes are not good for live rock but its a part of the process? so why does it even matter if its going to happen anyways, and whats the point of water changes to dilute the spike if the whole thing has to spike anyways. can you cycle a tank without live rock and what is the point if your just gonna add more next month? and why the hell do I have to wash my rocks? do I wash them in fresh water or do I gotta mix up SW for this too? if the most precious part of live rock is the goop inside than why would I want to rinse it at all, there may be things inside it that are unwanted but cant clean up crews takes care of those things over time?? I am up to my eye balls in sticky's and page after page of reading and still I cant see what the difference is between curing and cycling except one means the rock is getting used to the water, and one means the water is getting used to the ammonia, nitrites, nitrates process. what do I do first this weekend after I mix my water up with reef mix salt