I saw the "DUMBEST THINGS" thread, and thought I've probably got the greatest story, so here it is......
I've never had much luck with women. I've dated a few here and there, but none that really 'hit the spot', if you will. None that i could ever see myself being with for a really long time, and I'm sure most felt the same about me. I never fell in love, and none of them ever fell in love with me....except for this last one. It all started.....
One day about 6-7 ago, riding the bus home from school, i set eyes on one of the most beautiful middle graders my 9th grade punk *** had ever seen. She was riding home with one of her friends of whom i was friends with. Right away i developed a crush on her, but was too much of a wussy to ever talk to her.
Time goes by, she starts high school, and i start seeing more and more of her. We end up running into each other at parties here and there. I came across her screenname somehow, i do not remember how....but we started talking to each other online. I still wasn't man enough to ask her for her phone number, or to ask her out or anything. We kept in contact for many years, until I unexpectedly lost my AOL account. I didn't get a chance to get her phone number before losing AOL, and I wasn't going to ask her friend for it and call her up out of the blue, I don't know, i was just too pussy.
But anyhow, 3-4 years go by, and i decide to try AOL again. I re-created the same screenname and signed on. Here i get a message from that same girl, who had changed screennames but still kept mine on her buddy list.
We start talking again. I find out she moved to a town about 40 minutes away, and has a boyfriend, but things aren't going so great. They've been on and off for nearly 3 years and can't seem to get their act together. She asks me one day, "Would you ever consider dating me if I was single?". I immediately responded with a fat "YES!"...
Well a few weeks go by, she tells me that she's dumped her boyfriend. She came over to my house one weekend, we played cards, and hung out with a few of our friends. At the end of the night when she was on her way out, I got to kiss her. It was by far the greatest kiss I ever had, for the girl who i was kissing I had crushed on since my early days of high school. I never thought I'd have such an opportunity.
Well the next weekend comes, and she comes over with the intentions of staying there the entire weekend. We hit it off great, sparks constantly flying, it was awesome. I asked her if she was 'ready' and willing to be with me, to be my boyfriend. I knew it was quite close to the time of her leaving her ex-boyfriend, and wasn't sure myself that she was ready. She replied with a "yes".
So I'd say about 2 months go by, I thought everything was going great. We might have moved kind of quick but things were getting hot and heavy. One night we're fooling around and I pulled out my digital camera and took some pictures and videos. She didn't want to do it but I had talked her into it. She said "Ok, but promise me you'll never show these to anybody, for any reason." I agreed of course, and off i went snapping pictures.
-sidenote-
I had this male friend that I talked to online for about 6 months, about music, movies, etc. etc. I had sent him (clothed) pictures of the girl who I was dating, and he tells me she looks familiar, and asks her name. I told him her name and he tells me that they used to chat all the time, and that they got freaky on the webcam a few times. I asked her about it and she admitted it....but i figured ehhh it was years ago, who cares? She said she doesn't have his SN and doesn't nor wouldn't talk to him again if given the chance - keep this sidenote in mind.
-back to the story -
Well the next weekend comes and I ask her if she's coming over. Turns out she has to tell me something. She tells me she cannot see me any longer because she is still in love with her ex-boyfriend. I asked her if she was getting back with him and/or trying to work things out with him....she told me "NO, I just don't think that it's right to try and be with you while I still have feelings for him." She had promised me that wasn't what she was doing, although i was quite suspicious.
I took it kind of hard...I was depressed and let down, yet I couldn't blame her because I knew we got involved entirely too soon. We remained friends and continued talking. I had asked her one day if she had hung out with and/or talked to her ex-boyfriend....and here she tells me that on the same night she broke up with me, he had come to her house and had spent the night. She said that his dad had kicked him out of the house and he needed a place to stay. I highly doubt that, because I'm sure he has other friends he could have stayed with, but anyhow... She went on to tell me that she hung out with him one night after one of her friend's weddings, and that he had spent the night.....and she admitted sleeping with him.
I was shocked by this....I mean how could she do something like that? To have him over to her house the same night she broke up with me? And to tell me that she's been sleeping with him again? It was a total mindblow to think she would go and do something this, especially after proming me she wouldn't. I mean i knew she was in love with him, but after all the crap he put her through....all the break ups and fighting. And last but not least she tells me that they aren't getting back together, they hung out as friends, and she made the mistake of sleeping with him. Whatever....
-sidenote2-
So I was talking to my dude friend online, and told him that she had left me and told him the reason. I told him, "Hey, at least i got some great pictures and videos as a reminder."....and he asked what kind of videos and pictures....and me being the dummy that I am, I told him I'd just send them to him. I figured he had already seen her on cam messing around, it won't hurt to show him these. And I ended up sending them to his friend too, who's girlfriend was bi and thought my girlfriend was hot. And there was this other guy, who would message me everyday and tell me about his sick dying mother who's got cancer. I got sick and tired of hearing about it everyday, so I thought I could give him something to cheer him up, so I sent them to him too. (thats all for this guy in the story) - keep dude #1 in mind
-ok back to the story-
But anyhow...I liked this girl, we had talked for so many years and had been friends for a long time. I was willing to look past all that and about 2 months later we started seeing each other again. Once again, things were going great. We got so attached to each other we couldn't handle being apart. For once in my life I actually found a girl i can dig and who can dig me, I actually fell in love. The feeling was mutual, I could see it in her eyes. I had no trouble falling in love with this one, I knew her for nearly 6 or 7 years, I knew what she was about, and what she wanted - to settle down. I thought 'great, finally one that I can keep'.
Welllllllll **** happened one day, when she was here, and I was sitting at the computer. My so-called 'buddy' messaged me and asked what I was doing. I said "not much, just hanging out with ____." He asked if she was at the computer, i said no, and he asked me to bring her to the computer, and that he has something he wants to tell us both. So I brought her in, she sat down on my bed behind me, and I told him that she is here. He goes, "Jason showed me your sex tapes!" Immediately my eyes went :22_yikes: and I hurried to close the IM. I didn't think she saw it, she was sitting behind me on the bed, and kind of far away from the computer. I had thought to myself that I had better tell her, in case she did see it.....but i was too scared to thinking she'd break up with me had I told her.
Well I signed off quick and got up from the computer as if nothing had happened. I laid down beside her and she tickled my back as we started watching reruns of Seinfeld. She never said a word about it, and I never said a word about it....UNTIL...
A week goes by, and I go to her parent's house to stay the weekend. Everything is going along just great, as if nothing had ever happened. I go home after the weekend, and the next night while I was at work I was talking to her through AIM express, and she tells me there's something she needs to ask me about.
She said "is it true you showed dude our videos?".....I didn't know what to say. I tried lying and saying that I showed him some pictures. She insisted that i do not lie. I said that I did show him some videos. Basically this went on and on for a few minutes, trying to cover up the fact that i sent them and slowly admitting to it.
She asked if there was anybody else who I had sent them to, I lied and said NO. Then she asks me about dude's friend, so there I admitted that one too. Turns out she memorized dude's screenname from him messaging at my house and decided to investigate. I openly admitted the 3rd guy, thinking I already screwed myself and thought she should know.
Needless to say, she left me 5 days ago. Not for showing her video to people, but for trying to cover it up and lie about it. She says she can't trust me anymore. But what she doesn't realize is that I know i made a mistake, and as you can see so did she. I know i was wrong about showing them, and she knows she is wrong about what she did....but she cannot get over the fact that I would keep that from her for so long, and then lie about it once confronted about it....and my only reason for doing so was to try and salvage anything left in our relationship. I didn't want her to find out, and I didn't want to hurt her. These were never my intentions. I was just fk'd up, hurt, confused and lost at the time because she had left me, and didn't think twice about showing somebody the pictures. It was all my mistake i understand this.
I've overlooked her mistakes and put it all behind me...because all I ever wanted was to be with this girl. She tells me now that she doesn't want to talk about it, can't be with me, and can't work things out. She's scared that she can't trust me anymore, she thinks I've been lying about anything and everything now, which I never lied about anything except the above story. I just wish she would realize this and give me one last chance....because I sure as hell would never go and do something this retarded or even half again. I try talking to her about it, and she just gets mad. She knows she's the only girl I've ever fallen in love with and it kills me to see her give up on me this easily. I've got to fight to get her back, I'm not giving up on this love.
moral of story - guys don't show your woman's sex pictures or videos to people
- don't lie
- don't cover **** up
- and last but not least - don't show your sex tapes to people and then lie to try to cover it all up
THEY FIND OUT EVERYTHING!
Thanks for listening. I can't talk to her about it she gets mad, and I had to tell somebody. Sorry it was such a long story. Feel free to comment and or make an *** out of me, I see it coming.
I've never had much luck with women. I've dated a few here and there, but none that really 'hit the spot', if you will. None that i could ever see myself being with for a really long time, and I'm sure most felt the same about me. I never fell in love, and none of them ever fell in love with me....except for this last one. It all started.....
One day about 6-7 ago, riding the bus home from school, i set eyes on one of the most beautiful middle graders my 9th grade punk *** had ever seen. She was riding home with one of her friends of whom i was friends with. Right away i developed a crush on her, but was too much of a wussy to ever talk to her.
Time goes by, she starts high school, and i start seeing more and more of her. We end up running into each other at parties here and there. I came across her screenname somehow, i do not remember how....but we started talking to each other online. I still wasn't man enough to ask her for her phone number, or to ask her out or anything. We kept in contact for many years, until I unexpectedly lost my AOL account. I didn't get a chance to get her phone number before losing AOL, and I wasn't going to ask her friend for it and call her up out of the blue, I don't know, i was just too pussy.
But anyhow, 3-4 years go by, and i decide to try AOL again. I re-created the same screenname and signed on. Here i get a message from that same girl, who had changed screennames but still kept mine on her buddy list.
We start talking again. I find out she moved to a town about 40 minutes away, and has a boyfriend, but things aren't going so great. They've been on and off for nearly 3 years and can't seem to get their act together. She asks me one day, "Would you ever consider dating me if I was single?". I immediately responded with a fat "YES!"...
Well a few weeks go by, she tells me that she's dumped her boyfriend. She came over to my house one weekend, we played cards, and hung out with a few of our friends. At the end of the night when she was on her way out, I got to kiss her. It was by far the greatest kiss I ever had, for the girl who i was kissing I had crushed on since my early days of high school. I never thought I'd have such an opportunity.
Well the next weekend comes, and she comes over with the intentions of staying there the entire weekend. We hit it off great, sparks constantly flying, it was awesome. I asked her if she was 'ready' and willing to be with me, to be my boyfriend. I knew it was quite close to the time of her leaving her ex-boyfriend, and wasn't sure myself that she was ready. She replied with a "yes".
So I'd say about 2 months go by, I thought everything was going great. We might have moved kind of quick but things were getting hot and heavy. One night we're fooling around and I pulled out my digital camera and took some pictures and videos. She didn't want to do it but I had talked her into it. She said "Ok, but promise me you'll never show these to anybody, for any reason." I agreed of course, and off i went snapping pictures.
-sidenote-
I had this male friend that I talked to online for about 6 months, about music, movies, etc. etc. I had sent him (clothed) pictures of the girl who I was dating, and he tells me she looks familiar, and asks her name. I told him her name and he tells me that they used to chat all the time, and that they got freaky on the webcam a few times. I asked her about it and she admitted it....but i figured ehhh it was years ago, who cares? She said she doesn't have his SN and doesn't nor wouldn't talk to him again if given the chance - keep this sidenote in mind.
-back to the story -
Well the next weekend comes and I ask her if she's coming over. Turns out she has to tell me something. She tells me she cannot see me any longer because she is still in love with her ex-boyfriend. I asked her if she was getting back with him and/or trying to work things out with him....she told me "NO, I just don't think that it's right to try and be with you while I still have feelings for him." She had promised me that wasn't what she was doing, although i was quite suspicious.
I took it kind of hard...I was depressed and let down, yet I couldn't blame her because I knew we got involved entirely too soon. We remained friends and continued talking. I had asked her one day if she had hung out with and/or talked to her ex-boyfriend....and here she tells me that on the same night she broke up with me, he had come to her house and had spent the night. She said that his dad had kicked him out of the house and he needed a place to stay. I highly doubt that, because I'm sure he has other friends he could have stayed with, but anyhow... She went on to tell me that she hung out with him one night after one of her friend's weddings, and that he had spent the night.....and she admitted sleeping with him.
I was shocked by this....I mean how could she do something like that? To have him over to her house the same night she broke up with me? And to tell me that she's been sleeping with him again? It was a total mindblow to think she would go and do something this, especially after proming me she wouldn't. I mean i knew she was in love with him, but after all the crap he put her through....all the break ups and fighting. And last but not least she tells me that they aren't getting back together, they hung out as friends, and she made the mistake of sleeping with him. Whatever....
-sidenote2-
So I was talking to my dude friend online, and told him that she had left me and told him the reason. I told him, "Hey, at least i got some great pictures and videos as a reminder."....and he asked what kind of videos and pictures....and me being the dummy that I am, I told him I'd just send them to him. I figured he had already seen her on cam messing around, it won't hurt to show him these. And I ended up sending them to his friend too, who's girlfriend was bi and thought my girlfriend was hot. And there was this other guy, who would message me everyday and tell me about his sick dying mother who's got cancer. I got sick and tired of hearing about it everyday, so I thought I could give him something to cheer him up, so I sent them to him too. (thats all for this guy in the story) - keep dude #1 in mind
-ok back to the story-
But anyhow...I liked this girl, we had talked for so many years and had been friends for a long time. I was willing to look past all that and about 2 months later we started seeing each other again. Once again, things were going great. We got so attached to each other we couldn't handle being apart. For once in my life I actually found a girl i can dig and who can dig me, I actually fell in love. The feeling was mutual, I could see it in her eyes. I had no trouble falling in love with this one, I knew her for nearly 6 or 7 years, I knew what she was about, and what she wanted - to settle down. I thought 'great, finally one that I can keep'.
Welllllllll **** happened one day, when she was here, and I was sitting at the computer. My so-called 'buddy' messaged me and asked what I was doing. I said "not much, just hanging out with ____." He asked if she was at the computer, i said no, and he asked me to bring her to the computer, and that he has something he wants to tell us both. So I brought her in, she sat down on my bed behind me, and I told him that she is here. He goes, "Jason showed me your sex tapes!" Immediately my eyes went :22_yikes: and I hurried to close the IM. I didn't think she saw it, she was sitting behind me on the bed, and kind of far away from the computer. I had thought to myself that I had better tell her, in case she did see it.....but i was too scared to thinking she'd break up with me had I told her.
Well I signed off quick and got up from the computer as if nothing had happened. I laid down beside her and she tickled my back as we started watching reruns of Seinfeld. She never said a word about it, and I never said a word about it....UNTIL...
A week goes by, and I go to her parent's house to stay the weekend. Everything is going along just great, as if nothing had ever happened. I go home after the weekend, and the next night while I was at work I was talking to her through AIM express, and she tells me there's something she needs to ask me about.
She said "is it true you showed dude our videos?".....I didn't know what to say. I tried lying and saying that I showed him some pictures. She insisted that i do not lie. I said that I did show him some videos. Basically this went on and on for a few minutes, trying to cover up the fact that i sent them and slowly admitting to it.
She asked if there was anybody else who I had sent them to, I lied and said NO. Then she asks me about dude's friend, so there I admitted that one too. Turns out she memorized dude's screenname from him messaging at my house and decided to investigate. I openly admitted the 3rd guy, thinking I already screwed myself and thought she should know.
Needless to say, she left me 5 days ago. Not for showing her video to people, but for trying to cover it up and lie about it. She says she can't trust me anymore. But what she doesn't realize is that I know i made a mistake, and as you can see so did she. I know i was wrong about showing them, and she knows she is wrong about what she did....but she cannot get over the fact that I would keep that from her for so long, and then lie about it once confronted about it....and my only reason for doing so was to try and salvage anything left in our relationship. I didn't want her to find out, and I didn't want to hurt her. These were never my intentions. I was just fk'd up, hurt, confused and lost at the time because she had left me, and didn't think twice about showing somebody the pictures. It was all my mistake i understand this.
I've overlooked her mistakes and put it all behind me...because all I ever wanted was to be with this girl. She tells me now that she doesn't want to talk about it, can't be with me, and can't work things out. She's scared that she can't trust me anymore, she thinks I've been lying about anything and everything now, which I never lied about anything except the above story. I just wish she would realize this and give me one last chance....because I sure as hell would never go and do something this retarded or even half again. I try talking to her about it, and she just gets mad. She knows she's the only girl I've ever fallen in love with and it kills me to see her give up on me this easily. I've got to fight to get her back, I'm not giving up on this love.
moral of story - guys don't show your woman's sex pictures or videos to people
- don't lie
- don't cover **** up
- and last but not least - don't show your sex tapes to people and then lie to try to cover it all up
THEY FIND OUT EVERYTHING!
Thanks for listening. I can't talk to her about it she gets mad, and I had to tell somebody. Sorry it was such a long story. Feel free to comment and or make an *** out of me, I see it coming.
