I am a newly wed...........therefore I am forced into the 'I have to care' group. Like Nuth I assume partake in order to make my wife a happy woman sense she enjoys the day very much.
A friend asked me what would you want to do if your wife planned the day for you and you alone. I responded, "Nothing different than any other day." (except my gift would be nothing shy of 300g) Which made me realize....I really don't care for today except to make my Love happy.