Gothca guys thanks....I believe it is deinately a male though!
Stressed? maybe. he was not that dark when i bought him. at the same time dont let that picture fool you. He is the smallest and new kid on the block (its been just about 2 months since I got him) but he is NOT afraid of anyone! he beats up the oscar that is 3 times his size (not pictured), he argues with the Parrots, has no issues with the monsterous Pacu, nor the albino oscar and chocolate chilid.
Oh the joys of parenting FH's....the excitement to see how they will develope