i have two flowerhorns on each side of a divider, one male and one female. The female consistantly lays eggs, but when i open the divider they just lip lock n swim around in circles, until i seperate them again. That didnt work so the next batch of eggs i switched the male to the female side with the eggs and the female to the male side with no eggs (duh) but the male just eats the eggs. So how can i get the male to fertilize the eggs?