yes search around and you would be better served to get what you are looking for on line that just settle for something you might happen across. I was the same way you are feeling back when I transitioned my focus to FH years back. I had always keep the traditional cichlids and found the large kok unattractive as well. I sought out good looking FH's without it and there are many so you should not have a problem. The head thing will grow on you in time lol. Still to this day and I believe it to be because I had so much experience with other fish and transitioned to FH's. I appreciate them all, and kok is not the #1 thing I look for or even seek. Rather the over all appearance is much more important! Flowerhorns were meant to be and are still considered a fang shi fish, so to hold true to that when viewing a fish. It should flow nicely and be very eye pleasing from on end to the next. Just like a good piece of art

I would strat you search with Aquabid, Aquaticwonderland.com, and the flowerhorn forums on the net. If you use Aquabid there are many good sellers there just make sure you check the reps because there are also many low lifes. The flowerhorn forums are good places to ask about a seller before buying a fish. If you need some help bro hit me up I would be more than happy to lend a had good luck and let us know what you end up getting