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I'm a high school senior. The last couple of years I've been hanging out with these guys who would always call me their friend but the past couple of months I've been kind of drifting away from them. There are just so many things I don't like about them. They're jerks to people who are not friends with them. They treat women like crap. They always make fun of me for either being over weight, a virgin or whatever. And they make stupid choices (one of them just got a DUI and a possession ticket all in one night). They always get lucky! Like when they get in trouble mommy and daddy always bail them out of trouble. They always just get by on who they know, they have no work ethic, unless it's lifting weights to impress the girls... (which I lift to but I do it to get bigger for football..) They ask me to hang out but I just don't want to hang out with them so I make excuses and stuff... They're just bad news. And then next year I'm going to college and my top choice is also the top choice of one of them. I know it's college and there are a ton of people there so I won't always be around him but we're planning on playing football so I'll have to be around him at some point or another....

I'm sorry for the rant I just needed to say it and I would like any advice if you have any.

Thanks,
Mike
 
My advice is to stay away from jerks, they will only bring you down with them. College is a HUGE place and you will make other friends then.

KUDOS to you for recognizing a bad situation!
 
sounds like they are the kinda people who you see when your 30 and in a good job and there still living off the fact their popular.

when i left highschool i went to a college miles away and broke from all my old friends to make new ones :D
 
Stay away.. they will only bring you down. When you go to college you will meet a ton of new people. And yes, kudos for recognizing a bad situation and being smart enough to get out instead of trying to stay popular...
 
Hi Mike, I think you're right to leave those jerks! You can find some better friends, who won't judge you because you're a virgin! They should get a life, and leave you alone! If you want to talk, just let me know hun!:)
 
your making the right choice of getting away from them. i hug out with people like that in high school. started doing drugs, not doing much with their lives, getting DUI, etc. i would have prolly done much of the same but luckily i got a good gf who helped me away from that. now that i see what they are doing i happy i didnt go to school with them. im only about 40miles away form where i went to high school but only like 3 people from my class went to my school. i really dont talk to any of them and it was a good decision.
 
They are obviously not really your friends. I don't say this just because they sound like bad people. Because if you said you liked the same I'd say they're your friends. But you sound way different from them. You will find friends later though I'll warn you in saying true friends are few and far between. That's not a bad thing. Just a good thing to realize. And glad you're finding out who you are.

In the end it's only college/high school and in real life in some situations you have to be around people you don't really like at one time or another. The important part is that you don't pick up their negative traits and stay true to yourself.
 
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