girl problems

[ltvills]

ok here we go
i have been going out with my gf for just over a year now
and its been realy lovely to have her there most of the time

but ive been realy good friends with this girl for 3 years now.
and everyone knows us to be like really cklose together and all that.
even at work since i always used to bring her 2 work functions or family weddings as a date for the night..
but recently i found people always telling me i should be going out with my best friend. its quite akward but unknown to most
we have corssed the friendship line once and dint wana ruin what we had and was both scared.

yes yes... it does feel like were both stuck in the friend zone..
but i do know i have a girl friend and do care about her.
sigh what to do.. what to do..

 

[Lupin]

So stick to your girlfriend and don't ruin both relationships.

 

[DucatiDragster]

Lupin gave you the monster answer.

 

[frontosablkrhom]

your in a great spot, keep your existing girlfriend, then start to get more physical with your friend, tell your friend you really care about her then ask her out BAM 2 girlfriends and double the fun. playa plaaaaaa

its not like your a married man live it up

be careful they dont find out about each other.. good luck man

 

[Lupin]

I wonder if the two girls will eventually ignore him if they find out the whole truth. The truth shall prevail.

 

[zenyoungkoh]

your in a great spot, keep your existing girlfriend, then start to get more physical with your friend, tell your friend you really care about her then ask her out BAM 2 girlfriends and double the fun. playa plaaaaaa

its not like your a married man live it up

be careful they dont find out about each other.. good luck man

 

[stewnew]

I wonder if the two girls will eventually ignore him if they find out the whole truth. The truth shall prevail.

seen it happen don't go down that road. its mad disrespect for the ladies and your a punk if you think thats cool.


besides gotta watch out for gonorrhea, that's everywhere

 

[Peanut_Power]

So stick to your girlfriend and don't ruin both relationships.

Great advice.

your in a great spot, keep your existing girlfriend, then start to get more physical with your friend, tell your friend you really care about her then ask her out BAM 2 girlfriends and double the fun. playa plaaaaaa

its not like your a married man live it up

be careful they dont find out about each other.. good luck man

Bad advice. Throw your morals and any respect for women out the door and you just become a tool. Your decisions effect more than just you, and with advice like that, its no wonder there are a lot of broken hearts, dysfunctional relationships, and divorce.


If you really have to stop and question yourself though then you shouldn't be with your current girlfriend. You already know what you want to do, you just want someone to say it for you. You've got to think of the consequences though. Is it worth demolishing your current gfs feelings to try out something that might not even work out? Or should you stick with the one that is tried and true? Doesn't seem like a hard decision to me.

 

[Chrisplosion]

What if one or both are secret Monster Fish Keepers? Your cover is blown!

 

[ltvills]

both think me having fish as pets is stupid. ps thats why i havent done anything i dont wana ruin any of the relationships.
i just wondering .
ps theres nothing for either of them 2 find out