Well how about this... If this is a family site, thats awesome. I have had lots of experience with online forums.. My best suggestion is this.. And if you all approve, lets get a thread going to express the modification for us "adults."
Create a sub-section in the forum for adults, 18+ where we can chat without being controlled or held accountable for what we say... Younger members or members who do not feel comfortable can't or don't have to enter the forum section.. Even could put a pw or have a list of members over 18...
What do you all think? That way we can chat without being babied by the mods who try to keep it family friends all around..
Thanks MFK.
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