The most common method (But not the most accurate) of determining the sex of a FH is by looking at the dorsal fin. Female FH's tend to have large black patches on their dorsal fins. Most male FH's tend to have dorsal fins clear of black patches. There is an exception though. New generation male FH's with double row flower patterns can also have black patches on their dorsal fins. My favorite male FH has double row flowers and also has a small amount of black patches on its dorsal fin. When I had purchased him (at 3 1/2 inch size), I though he was a 'she', but I got him anyways because it looked so striking. But I've noticed that these males have patches that are smaller than a true female FH. Then again, there are also females with small black patches. Many FH's don't show their black patches on the dorsal fins until they are three inches or larger. Therefore, it is difficult to tell what sex a small FH is.
The most accurate way of sexing a FH, is by looking at the "vent tube" or "anal pore." It should be a V-shape for males and a U-shape for females. It is difficult to see this on smaller FH's. It becomes easier when the fish is 4 inches or larger.