i love my jag to death its like a lil dog i keep in a glass case underwater without it dieing , but i wana get it a female , at first i thought it was a female but alota ppl say it looks like a male , well ive named my jag borris and i wana find a female for him , but how do you know what the sex is ? can anyone please explain this to me like an idiot so i can finaly relize what im looking for when i go get a female. thank you.