Hello--
I have been adding fish over time, and I just bought a juvie male electric blue hap last Saturday. All of my previous fish would have "come out of their shell" by now, but this guy is hanging out at the far end of the tank and trying to hide behind the heater. We are now on day 3, and of course he gets picked on.
I did all the things you're supposed to do when introducing a new fish--new rock work, fed the others, etc, etc. however, this fish seems to be afraid of his own shadow. One of the females is trying to make advances on him, and he freaks out from that too. He is also the largest fish in the tank--by a little.
I don't mind if I have a timid fish as long as they don't get hurt. In order for him to eat, I have to feed the others on one side of the tank, and then drop food practically on his head to get him to take a few bites. His pectoral and tail fin are jagged from snips and bites from the others.
It's like the dynamic in my tank is the chase and be chased and all is well. This guy, just panics and is totally stressed! I called the LFS where I bought him and they are just a ma and pa, so they really don't take fish back, but they said they would and give me a store credit. When I asked how long I should wait to see if he's going to fit in, I was told one week. Well, I don't want him to die in that time. I've seen (and had) fish slowly die from little bites here and there.
I really want this fish, but I want him to be healthy. Can anyone give me an idea of what is reasonable?
Many thanks,
I have been adding fish over time, and I just bought a juvie male electric blue hap last Saturday. All of my previous fish would have "come out of their shell" by now, but this guy is hanging out at the far end of the tank and trying to hide behind the heater. We are now on day 3, and of course he gets picked on.
I did all the things you're supposed to do when introducing a new fish--new rock work, fed the others, etc, etc. however, this fish seems to be afraid of his own shadow. One of the females is trying to make advances on him, and he freaks out from that too. He is also the largest fish in the tank--by a little.
I don't mind if I have a timid fish as long as they don't get hurt. In order for him to eat, I have to feed the others on one side of the tank, and then drop food practically on his head to get him to take a few bites. His pectoral and tail fin are jagged from snips and bites from the others.
It's like the dynamic in my tank is the chase and be chased and all is well. This guy, just panics and is totally stressed! I called the LFS where I bought him and they are just a ma and pa, so they really don't take fish back, but they said they would and give me a store credit. When I asked how long I should wait to see if he's going to fit in, I was told one week. Well, I don't want him to die in that time. I've seen (and had) fish slowly die from little bites here and there.

I really want this fish, but I want him to be healthy. Can anyone give me an idea of what is reasonable?
Many thanks,