What are the signs of a dead stingray? im so paranoid she is dead, she isnt panting anymore and its hard to see if she is breathing the front of the tank is bowed so looks funny, she isnt moving at all today i think ive lost her and i just cant handle it she was my baby ive done everything i could for her one day she was doing ok next day she was flipping over ive been testing her water everyday and it always came up fine