My male motoro is mature...swolen claspers, 10" diameter. My female is 11", i have not noticed any signs of breeding yet, temp is 80-82 degrees feeding a massivore and hikari gold diet with occasional shrimp. My male after feeding will beat the female up a little...never leaving any marks or damage, and then go back searching for food. How could i help push them into breeding? DO you think maybe my female is just not mature?