Thats it, this sucks. I've been living out the same nightmare for too long and I'm getting close to quitting. I have been searching high and low for a Paroon shark for over ten years and have suffered too many near misses and devastating failed promises to keep my head up. I will not buy one more god damned iridescent shark only to watch it swim like a jerk around my tank for years while not getting any bigger. It's not the same thing, it's a cop out. Please, anyone who owns one of these fish, let me know where you got yours, what you paid for it, how great it is, what it's like to look in the mirror and know that you have accomplished something I have worked so hard for, anything. Where are these fish imported to? And by whom? Am I allowed to board a plane with a fish in a bowl? I need some hope and any persons involved in any way with these catfish could help.