I agree with Joe about adding rain water to dilute the hard tap water.
The thing is, keeping water consistent is more important than trying to soften water, so if you don't experience lots of rain, your parameters will fluctuate.
If I was you(and I did have similar tap water where I lived).
I chose fish that fit into my tap water.
There are plenty of species that prefer pH in the 8s.
All rift lake African species prefer 8 and above.
Most Mexican, Central American, and Australian species also prefer pH in the 8s.
Amazon and certain Asian fish generally do not, and trying to keep them in hard water, is like beating your head against a brick wall, unless you constantly collect barrels of rain water and/or install an expensive RO system, these soft water fish become susceptible to diseases and many chronic health problems.