i recently (about six hours ago) added my 4 inch male con to my 55 gallon which has a female juvenile dempsey.. now he is chasing her around
he isnt biting her or flaring at her but she is scared to death
i have had him in a 20 gallon for about a month so she could get established and grow a bit but i guess it didnt work.. what should i do? i really want them together in the tank since its my only large tank and i have grown very fond of them both! please any ideas would be great, i have even thought of maybe a tank divider??? oh and the male con was a rescue from being in a tank with a white male con that my lfs store thought was female.. he almost took his whole tail off before i bought him and grew it back.. plus he cannot see well AT ALL and has been stunted.. (just a bit of history about him if that helps) 


