I have a kenyi and a convict cichlid in a 40 breeder. I know I really shouldn't mix, but I acquired the kenyi (really small) from someone who was going to flush him/her, so I had nowhere to put it. Anyways, I had them for a few months, but the kenyi still has it's juvie colors, with the blue and black stripes. I was wondering if it's a female, or maybe because my male convict is the head honcho of the tank, the kenyi is keeping it's juvie colors?