Here is a 4.5 to 5" female.
Note the color in the dorsal.
Below the same female (in spawning color), with a male
You' can see the dark blotch of the female as she nears spawning time
One thing you may want to consider, is the influence of the bright, white substrate, that tends to wash out the cichlids normal colors.
It causes cichlids attempt to blend in., and that doesn't make IDing gender characteristics any easier