If you're talking about the Golden Trevally
Gnathanodon speciosus, you may only really keep them in a brackish tank (perhaps quite strongly brackish) for very short term, as these guys do largely perfer marine water anyway. Beyond that, based on other Trevally species, this species can also be expected to grow relatively fast, if it is as well fed as it is in the wild. Even if it isn't, though, compared to regular aquarium species, they're still large, fast(ish) growing fish.
Mangrove Jacks also get pretty large, although I'm quite unsure about just how big they get. From what I've heard, the land-locked true freshwater specimens tend to stay a little smaller than their brackish/oceanic counterparts. How much smaller I can't tell you. Even so, a large, predatory fish such as this one aren't really suitable for a 3' tank for very long, given their verocious appetites and subsequent high protien waste. It might work if you undestock the tank, give it some good filtration and then also give it regular water changes... but once the Jack gets to 20cm or so I'd start looking for much bigger accommodation...
As for mixing, its a hit and miss situation. Jacks are pretty predatory, although I'm not sure if they'll go for similar sized fish. The info on keeping these species in aquariums is very sparse, so finding out if they're compatible is going to be more of a trial and error than anything else. All I can say is, if you're going for these guys, best of luck.
