It really depends. My hystrix female is about 12" diameter and the male is 7.5-8" diameter. I would guess they are close to full grown, at least for my tank as neither ray has grown much in the past year or two.
For tank mates I have spotted pictus cats, Raphael cats, bristle nose plecos, a pair of severums, a geo, and various tetras. I tried angelfish in the past, but they eventually got picked off one by one. When adding a group of tetras (8-10) there were some that got eaten within a few days. After that, they seemed to learn quickly to stay away from the bottom at night. The rays have never bothered the catfish.
They did kill 2 smaller (3") severums a while ago but leave the bigger pair alone.
How big is your hystrix? I would say avoid cichlids that are less than 4".