He is in the 8" disk range. Does that female have the same mom and dad? I am very undecided about what direction I want to go with the big tank. Not sure if I want to get a leo/hen lady for him or a leo lady or maybe just get another male or two because they stay smaller or just keep one ray and get a bunch more bass etc... So I will probably just hold off until after the holidays or until I really make up my mind LOL