My poor fish

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djlancer88

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Feb 19, 2008
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Well some of you might recognize me from earlier threads in the catfish and diy. This is the first time in awhile iv been on, On the first of september my fiance and i split up. We moved out of are apartment back to our parents so we could do the hole school thing, stay together you know(we were together for three years, its a long time to me).Well the day we moved back home she cut it off completely, nothing, done. Such a double wammy and o my god iv been going through a ruff time with the break up. Very depressed, i dont show it really because i dont wan to look crazy. Well a week before we moved out i moved my tank to my moms. So it was here, when we split up i lost all interest in my fish, it was so sad. Up until today i didnt care for them at all. I have barelly fed them, havent changed there water since the first week of september. I dont know what it was but i wanted nothing to do with them. Today though i finally realized wtf i was doing to my guys, i was neglecting them!!!!! So i just did everything i had to for them, new ornaments, substrate, 100% water change, everything, shrimp, beefheart. Its so weird how i lost all interest in my hobby and now suddenly want it more then ever. Im glad the joy of having them has come back. Maybe means i finally getting over that biotch x girlfriend of mine. thank god.

They seem so happy today that they have finally been cared for, i can tell they dont feel left out anymore, i might sound crazy but even fish have feelings/emotions

i apologize to everyone for being a poor fishkeeper for the time i was, i feel guilty




PS one of her reasons for breaking up with me was all i cared about were my fish!!!!!!!!!!! how terrible she say that, everyone needs a hobby, she just didnt have one i guess
 
For some strange reason this reminded me of a Hillshire Farms commercial, where these guys are standing around a grill, with their chests out, they yell "Hillshire Farms!", then they throw one hand in the air with their spatulas and tongs and yell "Go Meat!". Welcome back, GO MEAT! :D


simple as that......
 
haha i didnt think anyone would reply!! lol winter/fall is here to that makes it even worse but im managing.

The remeber theres always other fish in the sea was perfect!! classic
 
i am glad your on a new path... something will open up and put things right on track where they should be.. and i am so glad it wasn't too late for your fish.. and you were able to get your interest going again.. depression is a weird thing..so glad it is behind you..
 
lol i went to the lfs today for the fiirst time in awhile and man it was so nice, i seen so many new fish, lol. they had sturgeons, rtcxtsn hybrids, albino weather loaches, idk. It was nice to go back there it was like a reunioin. I didnt even know they could sell sturgeons
 
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