Totally bummed, lost my 8" male last week, got in a scrape with a small Catfish and lodged himself in a log. I had a tough time even getting him out. Anyway, these are the two I have left, they both look like males to me. The three were all from the same batch, these two have grown kind of slowly. The bigger one is about 5-5.5" and the little I don't think has grown in six months. Please feel free to chime in about their sex and as to why the small one has not grown at all. Thanks









