Help! I've been seeing a new guy for a couple of months but I'm not "in luv" yet and I really really want to take this thing slow. I don't want to give him the wrong idea, but he's really nice and I want to spend more time with him. What the heck do I get him for Christmas? He's military, has a truck, Harley, boat, likes expensive toys, flies EXTENSIVELY (like weekly) and likes me very much, more than I am comfortable with. I don't want to give him a meh gift, but I don't want him to think that it's something more than let's see where this goes. Any ideas?