I recently purchased a female Rivulatus for my 8.5in Male, she is tiny compared to him and he could easily kill her, I am hesitant to add her because of this size difference, when I initially purchased her my logic was well most of the time a Male GT is bigger and capable of killing a female GT anyway even if they are relative in size. But once I actually got a look at them side by side, I am a little fearful of what could happen. What do you guys think should I wait for more size?